I have a special post to share with you today. Some of you might recall that I had some family issues earlier this year that made me very sad and worried. With my daughter's permission, I am able to share more of that with you today.
In January 2011, my then-12 year old became very angry and moody ALL the time. It was so unlike her. At first we thought it was her age, becoming a teenager and all that goes with that territory. Then she started skipping breakfast, which I fought her on nearly every day. Then her lunches came home with more and more food in the lunchbox, until entire lunches were sent home untouched. As February rolled in, I knew something was very wrong. She looked thinner and thinner all the time, and spent a lot of time alone. It used to be that she and her 9 YO sister were the best of friends, but she retreated inward, ignoring her little sibling.
In late February, she was diagnosed with restrictive-type anorexia. We sought the best care we could find, and that's not easy when your child is only 12. Many state laws ignore anyone under 14 years old. Ultimately, we wound up at
Woodland Forge in Phoenixville, Pennsylvania, an eating disorder treatment center. We are deeply grateful that we found it. The doctors there helped bring our little girl back. After intensive therapy, months of recovery, and pain and anguish for our entire family, she is so much better. My husband and I were a tight team that helped form our daughter's recovery plan, and had the loving support of our entire families and close friends. My blogging friends have also been a tremendous source of prayers, support and love for me, which I needed to be strong for my child.
To show just how well she is doing now, let me tell you this. As school has just recently begun again, our daughter found out she'd be having Health class in her first marking period. One of the topics to be learned is Eating Disorders. After class, she approached her Health teacher and told her that she had just gotten better about a month ago after having anorexia. Her teacher was so pleased and touched that our daughter shared it with her. Then, our daughter offered to speak to her entire class about her personal experience. (!!!) Her teacher was shocked and so excited. When my daughter told me, I had goosebumps, tears in my eyes, and pride swelling in my heart.
My daughter gave her presentation just the other day, and had the complete attention of every 8th grader in that class. Many asked questions, all looked sad, and some came up to her afterward to express how brave they think she is. There's another Health class in the 8th grade this marking period, and my daughter offered to talk to those kids, too. As I write this, she is scheduled to give her talk.
Last night we had Back To School Night at the middle school. My husband and I had a chance to talk to the school nurse and the Health teacher, who had such excitement on their faces as they told us how proud they are of our daughter. They are amazed that she wished to talk about this in front of her peers, especially because they are a young group of kids, maturity levels being what they are in that grade.
I wanted to make a special card to show our profound love, pride and amazement for her. I have no "Proud of You" stamps, so chose this Verve sentiment instead.
I got the layout inspiration from the
Featured Stamper at Splitcoast,
llwright. I kept the layout and hearts, but changed the color scheme, dressed up the card a bit with lace and punching, and of course, that special sentiment.
Thanks so much for joining me today. I really appreciate you taking time to listen. :-)
Colleen
Stamps: Celebrating You - Verve
Paper: Certainly Celery, Sahara Sand, Lovely Lilac - SU; white - PTI; designer paper - Nana's Kids Nursery Boys - DCWV
Ink: Versafine Onyx Black, Versamark - Tsukineko; Sahara Sand - SU
Punch: String Lace border - Martha Stewart; Full Heart and Large Oval - SU
Other: Big Shot; Heart of Hearts Embosslit - SU; venise lace; white rickrack - Wrights; Filigree and Ice brads - SU; dimensionals